Wednesday, June 8, 2011

A Question That I've Answered More Than 10 Times

So ok... I've finally reached to a point whereby I'm getting upset when people are asking me this particular question... "Kenapa nak bersalin Ceaserian? Go for normal delivery lah.." seriously people....I would've chosen vaginal birth if I can.... Not that I really want to have a ceaserian operation to be done on my tummy again... my experience from the first one dulu pon cukup la to let me know that the healing bit after the operation memang sangat seksa rasenye.... Kalo people yg buat VBAC, in 2 weeks time dah back to normal, for me last time, after 1 month I can still feel the pain from the operation.... so why on earth would I wanna choose the hard way of giving birth?.. haihhhh... the problem now is, i don't have a choice.... the position of Baby A is way too high up in my womb...if i were to go for a normal vaginal birth, it will be a very longggggg delivery which can lead to stress to both mommy and baby.... on top of that, the doctor will need to use either the forcep or vacuum to pull the baby out... now this is where the tricky bit comes in.... nak pakai forcep n vacuum memang boleh, tapi another problem is sebab the baby is too high in the womb, those two equipments are too short to reach the baby's head....so it will also lead to an emergency c-section operation.... on top of that, due to the long delivery, that can cause distress to the baby or it can lead to a stop of oxygen supply to the baby sebab mommy also in stress (and will cause brain damage to the baby) or worse still, there's also a possibility that we might lose the baby....now why on earth would i want to pose all these risks to my unborn child?... hmmm... ok la, i know la all of them are asking out of good intention, but seriously, do u think we would make a decision without consulting and getting the best opinions from the doctors?.... its a major abdominal surgery we're talking about here.... and FYI, ceaserian birth is considered to be one of the safest method to delivery a baby nowadays since you'll have all the specialists in the OT at the point of time...

On top of that, I've heard so many stories of other mothers who were also advised to opt for a ceaserian delivery but yet insisted to go on normal vaginal birth and ended up, having a baby yg mentally slow due to all the stress and cut of oxygen flow to the brain.... Nauzubillah.... selagi boleh avoid and minimize any potential risks to my child, I will do just anything, be it going under the knife again....

So please la people.... stop asking me and using that tone as though i'm making the biggest mistake of my life when I chose to have a ceaserian as what my doctor has advised.... Because this is our child, and we are doing this our way.... what we hope from you are your prayers, so that everything will goes on smoothly, Insya Allah...

5 comments:

aNaS said...

kannn..diorg igt kita ni nk sgt ke belah2 perot bagai..b4 buat keputusan tu,kita dh dpt consultation dr doktor pun..so,itu jln yg terbaik utk kita..

*tumpang emo jugak..;)

Leonora Halim said...

biasalah nok... mulut org! kalo leh zap-zap yg plaster ok juge... ekekek... relax relax mummy... sbg pengalaman ber-c-sect... saya suka! hahah... sbb 'bawah' tak sakit... takde masalah utk shi-shi.. hehe

p/s: i love to say this to all mothers... having vaginal birth, doesn't make you a better mother! :) anyway... we all mothers.. our kids we love us the same way anyhow..

zakirah said...

hahaha actually i pon suka c-sec..berak senang

mrs Fahmi said...

kannn...tak pepasal mek emok di pagi hari...ahahah....siap ade yg PM i kat FB duk question why i decide to go for c-sct....hadoiii..tensi mek...

** mommy meen ** said...

walaupun mommy tak penah go through the c-sec kan... nak gak cakap.. heh!! sukati lah nak bersalin kot cara mana pun. isshhh...

nak gak tumpang emo.